I had my lesson with Dandy last night but JLE decided to switch it up a bit and had me ride in her saddle, which is almost exactly what I’ll be getting in (hopefully) just a few more weeks.
It made a WORLD of difference.
When my saddle actually gets here, I’ll do a full comparison (and review), but for now let me just say I felt “stuck” in the saddle in all the best ways which gave me more confidence. My saddle is a very old piece of shiny slippery leather. It works. It’s a saddle. But it is also adding a lot to my insecurities, which was made abundantly clear in last night’s lesson. JLE is always surprised that I don’t fall off more when Dandy is being sassy because she doesn’t feel safe in my saddle. I guess I’ve had to learn to adapt. It’s what I had.
When I originally sold my saddle because it no longer fit Dandy, I had plans to take that money and go buy something that fit him better. Unfortunately life got in the way and I needed to use that money to pay for board and stuff. My trainer at the time had this old saddle laying around and so we put it on him. The flap actually fit me pretty perfectly and, despite having a tack room full of awesome custom french saddles, was the best fit for Dandy that we had found yet. So she gave it to me. Now of course, Dandy has changed tremendously and the saddle doesn’t fit well at all. But I won’t forget that act of kindness.
Besides working on the flat, I also got to jump! I told the boy afterwards that I haven’t been that excited to jump a X-rail since the very first time I was ever allowed to jump. Because I didn’t feel like I was going to slide off at any given point, we were actually able to work on it. I really need to get over being a passenger. Dandy thinks he knows best and I’ve been acting like he does too. JLE says I need to take back control. So I did. It was a blast.
I also got to try my new Horze Open Front and Fetlock boots:
Yup, they’re orange! JLE just laughed at me but I love them. And he’s my horse so I can do what I want. 🙂
JLE and I had a great talk over margaritas after my lesson. We are both on the same page when it comes to getting Dandy and I going and we’ve mapped out a schedule for him for the middle of summer. Starting in a few weeks (after Aspen and once the kids get out of school and start riding earlier), we’re going to add a Tuesday lesson so that I’m riding twice under her supervision and once on my own. I think riding with eyes on the ground will help me get over my confidence issues a lot faster because I’ll have someone to give me advice and walk me through the sticky spots.